Finding happiness through apps

When hearing about apps for being happy I wasn’t quite sure what to expect honestly. After browsing the websites, I thought they just might provide information on happiness and doing things to make you feel more content but I didn’t really know what else I’d find. They generally took survey’s and asked questions that had to do with your emotional state and what you were doing or where you were. Which I thought was kind of weird because I didn’t think it mattered what I was doing or where I was, I thought the questions would be more about emotional things or personal things. Come to find out that they tell you how you feel when participating in certain activities.

Not only do you check in with these apps but these apps also check up on you! Besides the fact you can update it when you want or add any current emotions or locations etc but they can also ask you throughout the day if you’re okay and to check in when you want to. Which is useful when you think about it. Also on one of the apps you can choose whether to keep your profile private or public and basically if it’s private it’s obviously for your eyes only BUT if it is public other users can comment on what you write and give you advise or feedback. I found this helpful for the simple fact that some people wan’t help and don’t know who to reach out to. Although it would be strangers it is still encouragement, support and helpful advise. When dealing with online places such as these, people feel more open to say what is bothering them and how they’re feeling because it’s not like they know who exactly it is or would have to see them everyday. It’s like a comfort zone I would say for those who would share their thoughts openly on the web. That is if someone was to choose to put it public. For those who would prefer to keep their business private can rightfully do so and reach their happiness goal on their own. Which is okay as well. Everyone is different and uses different strategies which this app is open to doing. On one of the other apps you can also choose facial expressions to show your current feeling. They let you choose the eyes and mouth which can give you different outcomes and you update it through out the day and it shows you on a graph how your moods have changed and whether it’s getting happier or sadder. Another app actually had a picture of Sonja Lyubirmsky which I found interesting since we read a article by her. After trying out these apps I actually found them useful for those who would want to see how their emotional state is and whether it changes because of their surroundings and what they are doing. After discovering what activities it is that actually brings their mood up they can do more of those things and do less of what doesn’t make them happy.

My happy place

My happy place can be a numerous of places. it can even be the bathroom, while I’m away from my noisy children. a place of comfort, solidarity, peace and quiet or it can be a loud extremely busy place. I guess it really depends on me and what Im feeling at that exact moment. but throughout my 26 years here in New York City, I must say that there is this one place that calms my storms. a place where peace resides and tranquility prevails… and that place would be right under the Brooklyn bridge,on the rocks by the water. 1744 I know that I’m not in the picture but this is the place and symbol of how happy I am when I am there through my children. My happy place with my favorite people. The water can be so calming to my spirit. like music when it beats against the rocks. its as if I’m in communication with mother nature. she sometimes tell me that my waves aren’t as bad as the ones she causes. and then the wind began to roar and the water begins to move. and me,I’m silent and still. she makes me listen. and I leave her with contentment in my soul that I can weather my storms.

 

I really enjoyed the article ” The Happiest and Saddest places in NYC”. it was both informative and accurate. “Land of Extremes” is what NYC was called. That blew my mind. No words could have fit my home town any better. who would think that the “wealthiest execs and the poorest of immigrants” can come from the same jungle. its a harsh reality that we live with everyday. the wealthy walk past the homeless, while they’re seated in front of their lavish apartments begging for money and or food. its the world that we live in today. the people who die from starvation never had the money to eat but the wealthy had the money for treats. there’s a huge contrast between some of the people who reside here. but none the less, we make the best out of it all.I think its great that they’re using the research as a “suggestion box” so that they know where the issues are that should be addressed. but what about the people who don’t use twitter, or who cant even afford to use a tool for social media!? where is their happiness/saddness recorded!?

The app experience

I’ve never tried to track my happiness until this assignment and its been rather strange. its way of actually training your mind to “happy”. They help you to realize your emotion in hopes to make a shift in things.. All of the technology can be helpful in noticing the emotion, but there isn’t any help in changing the situation. so that emotion would only be temporary. while being connected to the digital universe, we disconnect from the world around us. it is important how our emotion line up with our energy. I don’t think that these apps are for me at all. when I’m mad; I’m not going to go to the app and put in that I’m mad; I’ll be too mad to report it. In fact the apps might make me depressed, because it’ll actually be counting my happiness or reading me my reality.

All of this just shows the effect that technology has on us today. We go on social networks to track others activities. People we don’t even know. We find satisfaction in others depressing status on Facebook. and find envy in the person who just bought the new fab car or house or Instagram. These apps and social media networking just proves that others happiness have an effect on our own. and no, it cant be measured but it can be altered!

Happiness Apps

The happiness apps were quite interesting. I downloaded a few of them into my iPhone 4S. Some of the apps were hard to download but they all served the same purpose. They all tracked happiness and asked questions pertaining to well being. It also consisted of some personal questions about my life. The apps asked about anger, anxiety, depression, mood, sadness, happiness, irritation, confused, focused, dizzy, headaches, disorganized, impulsive and much much more.

The fact that they asked about all of those things means that those are key things important to happiness. The app T2 mood tracker in particular was very focused on the answers I gave them. It did not try to direct me to anything else besides myself. It was not like it had steps and procedures to follow to get to happiness. It was basically showing how self happiness is acquired through fulfilling ones needs.

Mappiness was an app I was very interested in, for a variety of reasons. It asked a lot of questions. It was a cool process because every question had a different direction to go into. For example, if yes or no was an answer, each answer would lead you to a different question. It is like choosing which path to take and the process it takes to get there.

However, I was unable to sign up for the app mappiness because when I got to the end it said there was an error with the system and I was unable to sign up for it at this time. I tried many times after to sign up and complete the process but it still hasn’t worked. I enjoyed the process but I believe the only part I am missing is my results.

The apps showed me of how much of a somewhat unhappy person I am. All of those apps just show how technology is getting advanced. Technology connects to everyday life and self happiness.

Social media and social networking has really increased drastically over the last few years. Happiness has been a main focus of the technological era. These apps that has been created shows great purpose and how important self happiness is to an individuals well being. Technological devices and tools have been used in various ways with different techniques.

The apps has shown me how to be happy for myself. It updates you every hour of every day. Literally. You can adjust these things in setting though. That is no problem but if you want it to work to its best, it is highly likely that you should leave all of the settings on because the more active you are with the app, the better the results.

In conclusion, all of the apps are beneficial to self happiness to each and every individual. To be happy, you must have a process and procedure to follow. Without those set of instructions, you will not be completely happy in life. All of the apps we learned about are key items in self happiness that can and will help if they are followed properly.

My Happy Place

Although it may sound boring my happy place is definitely my room. I tried to think of different places I have visited recently and in my past and although I have been to some interesting places in New York City, my room is my happiest. It’s the only place I have my own space and I can do whatever I want. I like having my own space and a place to think or just relax and my room is the perfect place for me to do that. Of course sometimes I want to get out and do things but I never get tired of coming home to my room! I have everything I could ever need to survive in there! I can watch movies, blast my music, read, eat etc.

When I was younger I always had to share rooms with my sister. We had bunk beds then we both had our individual beds but we were still in the same room. We don’t have a big age difference but we still both needed our space. Especially since at the time we were sharing we were at that stage where we hated each other. We spent so much time together it was unbearable! (only kidding) But now that we each have our own space to do what we want and breathe, we are really close. How ironic. I think this is another thing that contributes to me loving my room so much.

What makes being in my room enjoyable besides what I already stated is when my friends or cousins come over. Although they touch all my stuff, we always have fun whether it’s watching movies or just talking about stuff that’s bothering us or currently going on with us. We always find something to do when they come over.

I get tired of things easily so I change my room around a lot. My dad has painted my room at least 3 times in the past like 2 years. I always move my bed and dressers around simply because since I spend so much of my time in here whether it’s doing work or hanging out, i’m gonna get tired of seeing it the same exact way. I actually enjoy changing my room around because I change everything from sheets to the stuff I have on my walls or around my room. Everything is up to me and how I decide I want it to look which is cool. The only thing I don’t change in my room is it’s scent. Whether it’s fall or not my favorite scent is apply cinnamon. Although it’s usually thought of as a fall aroma, I have it in my room year around whether it’s spray or candles.

My room is just me. Everything about it is me as a person and who I am. I think it describes me well. It may sound weird or dramatic but it is. As much time as I spend in here I would only imagine it should. Although there are some beautiful historical places in NYC, this is why my room is my favorite.

I Love New York

Ok so as I stated at the beginning of all of this, I was born in Queens, raised in Brooklyn, existed holistically in all of the other boroughs in between. NYC? It’s just beautiful man! We’re talking Canarsie Pier, Manhattan Beach, numerous basketball courts throughout Harlem like Rucker Park where we’ve played basketball against  notables such as Carmelo Anthony, Amare Stoudemire, John Wall. 140th street and Lenox Ave where we continue to play against local legends. I can go on! However I will land on my most favorite NYC spot ever. This place is romantic, peaceful, it provides me with the ultimate solitude. It’s beautiful during the summer, but it is to die for on a beautiful autumn night. This place is the Brooklyn Promenade in Brooklyn Heights.

I’ve been visiting the promenade since high school. I was invited one afternoon by some friends from another school. We patronized The Promenade Restaurant initially. It was probably the first restaurant I’ve ever patronized and I don’t have to tell you what that’s like. Full, yet adventurous, we decided to explore the area. We’ve heard so much about the Promenade that we had to see for ourselves. The results that were yielded were that of pure awe! From then on one of my life’s goals became to own property around there somewhere where I can simply go to the Promenade to relax and meditate every day, sometimes numerous times a day (lol).

Before I moved my family to Harlem, we used to reside in the Bedford Stuyvesant section of Brooklyn. I’d drive to the Promenade, by myself, just to be by myself (we all need that sometimes), ground my thoughts and situations and actually improve upon them. I really love the Promenade, however the reason(s) that I go there is to consolidate my life’s direction. The beautiful thing about getting back to school, is that when I’m feeling a little “scared”, I take a stroll to the Promenade, hit the diner, then walk down to the elevated walk and overlook the South Street Seaport and simply revel in the beauty of it all. That totally calms me.

Of course there are so many other places. I’m a New York dude! Need I say more? They’ve actually improved the infrastructure around there. There’s now a place called Brooklyn Bridge Park in which I’ve visited a time or two. It’s nice. I’ve gone there to run the track a couple of times after a tumultuous day in class. It’s really quite nice, but that serves an entirely different purpose than my beloved promenade. I’m having quite the time uploading images as this isn’t my computer. I promise to do so before Tuesday’s due. Great sharing that with you all. Wow! Was it good for you? For me, it’s certainly worth revisiting…physically, mentally and emotionally.

 

 

The Boardwalk of Coney Island

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It’s so difficult as a New Yorker to pick a favorite place in New York City. It is much easier for a tourist to pick one. Places in New York seems really normal to me now since I have been here since the day I was born. If I was a tourist I could just name Time Square or any other tourist hotspots. However, I am not a tourist and I don’t want to write about a place everyone knows. I finally come across my childhood life while picking a place as my favorite. The Coney Island Boardwalk is my favorite place to be when I was a child and even now.

The local food is over price, but I still enjoy it. The boardwalk is filled with different small restaurant with old wooden tables for us to sit and eat. I especially enjoy the clam bar where I can see them actually open the shell. I enjoy eating calms while watching the scene of the beach. My favorite place for clams when I’m at the boardwalk is Paul’s Daughter. I love it cause that place have been around since I was a kid and the boss is still the same. He still sit behind the stand and greet the customers every time I go there. They also have a lot more food than just the great raw calms. They got this amazing funnel cake and other coney island signatures like hot dogs I remember a time when I was hanging out with my friends at the Coney Island broad walk, we went to this ice cream shop and we all got different types of ice cream. I then went to another shop and got cheese fries. I love the food.

The boardwalk of Coney Island had been around for many years and even before I was born. I enjoy the old look. It feels like there is history and not just something that is made two years ago. sometimes I wonder how is it like if it is the 1900 broadway looks like compare to the 2014 one. I hope to see the same and also expect the differences.

The summer is filled with fireworks. During the summer. Every Friday, there is fireworks for like 15 minutes. I can just stand on the Coney Island boardwalk and expect a wonderful visual display of colors shooting up the sky.

Walking on the boardwalk, you can also spot a lot of entertainment. People sing and people dancing. It is really festival everyday at the broad walk.

During the winter time, it might not be the best time to be, but I went and I found how delighted it can be when it just a few people. It cold but yet really calming listening to the ocean waves.

In conclusion, the boardwalk of Coney Island has history, food, festivals and much more. It’s a place to be when it hot, it’s a place to be when you want to eat, and a place to hang out with friends and family.

My Favorite Place in NYC

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It is very difficult to pick simply one place to be called my “favorite” place in New York City. Many people may pick a fancy place, an exotic place, park, busy areas but I would not say that any of those places are my favorite place. To say that something is my favorite place is very significant. It is a very important title to give to one specific thing. Anyhow, my favorite place is my friends house.

I chose my friends house as my favorite place for a variety of reasons. I mainly enjoy being there because it is always a full house. There is no boredom over there.

I am an only child living with just my mother. We do not live with any family members or even have any pets living with us. To get out and go to a full house with a pet it a complete 180 degree turn from my original lifestyle. It is a great escape from a tedious household. However, it is a huge benefit because when I get tired of the full house concept, I can always go home.

My friends house is a great place to be. If I want to be social or try to work on anything, someone is always there to help or advise me. There is a variety of things everyone can put in. It is a wide range of opinions which can be very helpful. It has a little of everything simple yet enjoyable. The little things in life makes me happy.

There are so many things to do over there at my friends house. Even though simply hanging out with one friend in the house all day may sound boring or to “be bored together” to me, it is not. It is all of the little moments that takes place.

The little moments and memories shared are the most amazing happiest feelings in the world. To know that you can escape and get away to a completely different environment and always go back to your original environment is to me, the happiest place in the world.

It is somewhat difficult to constantly adapt to that kind of environment when compared to the type of environment I was brought up in. To constantly shift is not difficult after a period of time after getting used to it.

Even though I ultimately prefer my peace and quiet environment. I do enjoy all of the moments shared. I enjoy all of the memories created that will last forever. All of those moments created over a long period of time at my friends house will always make me happy when I look back at it. It is truly my favorite place away from home in New York City.

Favorite Place in NYC

What a Happy Place!

All over the world there are places that people can go where they can feel happy. It can be a restaurant, a park, a store, or even a train station. After being asked this question I started to thoroughly think about what is one place in this whole wide world that makes me happy. Living in New York City for so long makes that so much more complicated. Seeing as there are many places that I enjoy going to and take pleasure in being there, I just couldn’t come to just one conclusion. I thought about all the places I ever been and I finally came to a conclusion. The place that makes me the happiest when I am there is in a place that both my friends and family are. It could be at a party, a dinner or a reunion. Once it contains my family and my closes friends I am 100% happy. When I am around them I feel like nothing can go wrong. Love is in the air, everybody is laughing playing and just having fun. Moments like that is what I enjoy the most. Being around people that truly loves you and will be always there for you is something that everyone should enjoy. I wouldn’t trade for that for the world. If my friends and family is there I am too!

 

Class note: Tuesday October 30th 2014

On Tuesday October 30th, 2014, our English class had been quite a rapid session due to hectic timing issues and a massive load of information needed to be giving out from our professor. After a quick attendance, we determined who would be do class notes for the future class meets. Please correct me if I am wrong.

Tuesday Nov. 4th: DulceThursday Nov 6th: Library session (Meet in the front of the library) : Carina

Tuesday Nov 11th: Peer review for essay two

Thursday Nov. 13th: Tinika

Tuesday Nov 18th: Indira

Thursday Nov 20th: Natasha

Tuesday Nov. 25th: Jacob

Thursday 27th: Thanksgiving (No class meet: YESSSS)

Tuesday Dec 2nd (Research paper daft one is due) : Arlene

Thursday Dec 4th: Mirna

Tuesday Dec. 9th: (Revision for Research paper) (Sorry I don’t remember who will be taking class note for this date)

Thursday: Dec. 11th: Dominique

 

 

To make class more productive and less chaotic, professor mention some simple rules to follow.

1) Raise you hands before we ask a question

2) Maintain respect for both the professor and your peers when having an open discussion.

The focus of today class: 

⇒ The Problem with Positive Thinking 

⇒Continuing the decision on “The Secret”the-happiness-project

⇒ Digital happiness and related topics 

Professor Beli shared a book to look into:

The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin

Problem with Positive Thinking Open Discussion:

The class mention many ideas involving the article.

“Problems can come out of positive thinking.” (referring to Pg 2 Ph 3)

“You are not as productive as you should be.” (referring to Pg 2 Ph3)

“Positive thinking is pleasurable but doesn’t mean it’s good for us.” (Pg 3 Ph 2)

“Need realism” (Pg 2 Ph 3 to Pg 3 Ph 6)

This article is like “Why Conservatives Are happier Than Liberals“by Arthur C.Brooks because it both gives a shocking conclusion to what we thought was truth but it really isn’t.

Reasonable wish vs. Fantasies

Passing a class (R)

Getting a job (R)

losing a few pounds (R)

Obtaining a degree without going to college (F)

World domination (F)

Open decision on “The Secret” (Pt: 2): 

Biography: Story of someone’s life

Root word: Aphy : write  Bio: life

The back of the book “The Secret” also contain short biography of the people in the book not just the author.

Digital Happiness Discussion 

In a view of the homework due today, we were supposed to browse though the websites and the apps and blog about them.

Happier: Tracks one happiness and provide courses to boost one’s area in needed; including sleep, self confidences, etc.

We talked a little about how positive psychology from the 1999 by Martin Seligman have impacted today’s world in many different environment.

Hedonmeter: Provide us with a graph of when do tweeters are usually are happy and it has been found that during holidays, there are usually more happy tweets.

Other importants discussions: 

Sentiment analysais: Opinion mining

example: product of Amazon,

Companies looking for overall reviews

Homework: 

Please check Schedule for more detailed information

Tuesday: Two different blogs are due: Favorite place in NYC and Response to apps

Thursday: Essay two draft is due.

(Please look in schedule for a better understanding.)

Things to think about: 

What interest you for research paper?

Does ‘science-based” works?

Think about questions related to measurement of happiness, values, how is happiness defined?

Tips before class meet on Tuesday: 

We must be well-inform and well-prepare for this class meet. (We should be prepare every class meet)

Play around with the website for more understanding or even download the app if you could to have a fuller understanding what it is.

Print out anything that is needed to be printed out.

There will or will not be a quiz. When Professor Beli said this, she actually means there will be one.

 

Have a Happy Halloween. Ok let me get started with my blog!

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