Adjective

incapable of being held by one person at one time —used of offices that make conflicting demands on the holder

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/incompatible

We want privacy, but cant stop sharing

“understand how much surveillance is incompatible with a free society”

The definition helped me understand that being watched for some individuals is not okay. According, to the definition there is a conflict involved. Being watched is so inconvenient that some individuals have a conflict because they are uncomfortable.