I dont consider myself obedient but i also wouldn’t call myself a disobedient person. I dislike the word obedient because the first thingt hat comes to mind is a dog like mindset. Like you can be put on a leash. You do as your told when your told just because someone told you to do it. That is def. not me. But i also wouldnt call myself disobedient. Its not like i will purposely do something just because its the opposite of what someone asked of me. I just do what i think is right, and i dont really pay mind to how those around me feel about it. I have enough sense to be able to do what i feel is the right thing, the polite thing. Am i obedient because i am polite? No. Am i obedient because my friend asks something of me and i do it as a favor? No. What would be obedient is a friend barks orders at you  and you fulfill all their wishes… in that case i guess its not really your friend at that point lol. The point is i just do what i feel is right regardless of what others think. Thats not disobedient but by no means is that obedient either. Im just doing me i guess you can say. I hope i didnt come off as aggressive wiht my points i was just trying to be as clear as possible. There have been times where me doing me was viewed as disobedient tho, by others. For example when i was in highschool, there was a social studies class where i would just sit in a far corner to myself on my phone not disturbing anyone and my teacher would essentially say i was being disobedient. “you dont listen” “i said to pay attention” this that and the third. But then in that same class i would get 90′ and 100’s on the tests . So overall i guess i was considered to obedient in the class. Goes to show its up to perspective, how i see it tho? Im just doing me.