In â What good is money if it cant buy happiness” ? Â By Sonja Lyubomirsky argues that can money actually buy happiness? She discusses how no matter how much money you have it cannot bring happiness to you. People who were the most wealthiest werenât actually happy because, although they may had have everything they wanted it wasnât something that would last that made them happy, they were more sad and miserable. Lyubomirsky suggested that instead we should spend our money on being adventurous such as vacations, trips, concerts, involving in more positive activities, doing things for others that would make us feel more positive about ourselves. She stated that âthe key to buying happiness is not how financially successful we are, but what we do with itâ (3),
However I agree that money doesnât bring happiness all the time maybe for the moment, but when itâs gone, a person is back to their regular self again. I say this because as Lyubomirsky stated when she spoke to an Ivy League educated plastic surgeon, he was someone who had it all, but even though he had it all he said âI had difficulty feeling motivated, and I have trouble getting out of bed this morningâ (1) which he explain that although he doesnât feel motivated he also discusses that he was completely miserable. Therefore a person who can have everything isnât the happiest person because when you have a certain amount of money you get used to it and it doesnât mean much to you anymore.
Lyubomirsky compared the comparison between money and happiness. Once a person gets use to positive change in their life such as getting high expenses, cars, clothes, as Lyubomirsky stated âwe quickly become inured to changes in our lives and my colleagues and I have found that we get used to the positive changesâ (1) that although her and her colleagues get used to the positive changes, they werenât using it in the way she believed that they should. Therefore people who are rich and wealthy instead of spending money on materialistic things, they donât necessarily matter itâs the experience that count and how you use it.
An additional thing to buy happiness is spending it on others, as Lyubomirsky believed. She believed that having money were able to have the ability to help one another such as our loved ones, society, charities, and to change the world. When we are able to give to others makes he/she feel more accomplished and positive because they are doing something for another person beside themselves, such as helping an elderly person cross the street, or helping them getting on the subway it makes us as society feel good. Therefore the more there are more people involving, engaging with one another could see that money doesnât always bring happiness it can be there for the moment and then itâs gone.
Lastly the key to buying happiness isnât how financial stable we are, but how we use it and it isnât about how rich a person is or how much they have its all about giving back to one another and helping our society.