Who is Frankenstein’s Monster?

Despite his physical grotesqueness, Frankenstein’s monster has the personality and traits of an ordinary human being. He learns, feels compassion, feels physical pain, hunger, thirst and  everything a normal person would feel, yet he gets shunned every time he tries to integrate into society due to his appearance. He starts of with an innocent “newborn” mind when he is first created. He was initially kind and gentle. He even saved a girl from drowning, only to be rewarded with disgust. Eventually he started to see himself the same way everyone else saw him, as a monster. He hates his own reflection, his voice and in time, Victor for giving him life. The only solution for his problems is to convince Victor to create a female companion for him. Victor fails to do this which results in making the Monster angry so he seeks revenge by murdering Victor’s best friend and wife. I think that was a very bad decision on Victors part. If he had put his personal feelings aside and finished the second creation he could have moved on with his life afterwards and forget about them entirely. He should have known that the monster wouldn’t be too happy about him not finishing the creation and would be mad. Shelley seems to be saying that we often judge others mostly on physical appearance which makes us overlook a persons character, and maybe some of the “monsters” in society are just people who have been neglected by that same society.