Think about a time when you joined a new group activity (maybe a team, religious retreat, club, or workplace).
- How did you feel when you first joined?
- Do you recall a moment when you felt like you were part of the group?
- What benefits did you get from participation in the group?
- What can you do to help yourself feel like part of a group at City Tech?
In high school, I joined the dance team and it was my first in-person year, so I was very nervous. During tryouts, we did lots of freestyle dancing, however, I didn’t do any dancing I just sat back and observed. The teacher in charge noticed this, and she asked me if I would like to dance with the student organizers a bit and it felt very welcoming. I was surrounded by many older kids, who took the team very seriously and I realized the importance of commitment. Showing up every week taught me that I can schedule different activities within my week. Taking the leap to join an organization/class chat and talking with people is really all you need to build a community.
Thats actually a really helpful skill and thats pretty cool you joined a dancing team. I use to go to other schools to watch the competitions. I would’ve never guessed people gain those skills through that.
That’s nice of the teacher to include you and make you feel comfortable. Sometimes we just need someone to be there for us to make us feel apart of the group so we don’t feel awkward and out of place.
Few years ago I joined a soccer team and at first I was nervous but I still participated in the exercises. The moment I felt like I was apart of the group was when they would have little tournament matches every weekend and they would go out the way to contact my parents to tell them to bring me to these tournaments to participate. I benefited from this soccer team as I got opportunities to travel to many different Caribbean islands to compete for my country. These opportunities opened me up to many different cultures and new sceneries in the Caribbean. To help myself feel part of a group at city tech I must first find people who has the same like minded mindset as I do and interests as I do and become friends with these people.
I think it’s so cool that you got to travel with your team. Being on a team can be a helpful experience with building skills.
Hi Quebert! That’s really cool how soccer was able to open various opportunities to you! What Carribean Islands have you visited?
Hey Odalis
I’ve been to Montserrat (My home), Jamaica, Trinidad and Tobago, Antigua and Barbuda, St.Kitts and Nevis, St.Vincent and The Grenadines, St.Lucia, Barbados and Guadeloupe. Have you been to any Caribbean islands?
In High school I joined a cultural group to help out and at first it was very awkward because they weren’t even part of my culture but i still wanted to help. But they were welcoming and after time i got used to it and helping them became easy. Being part of that group made me more social and open. Which is a part of how i want to be more social at city tech and maybe try and join clubs. Not too sure now but maybe something that interest me.
i think joining a club sounds fun and it will help to get to know people from city tech i also might join a club
It is very important in life to help others and to be social. A person, who helps other people, no matter in which area, in general, becomes more good things in life as opposed to someone who does not help.
I first felt nervous and worried but then when I started to do group activates and talked to my classmates, they were chill and fun and I learned a lot about them and you can talk to other people and get to know them to feel part of a group at city tech or even join a club
That’s really cool! I totally get how nerve-wracking it can be at first, but it’s amazing how just talking to people or doing group activities makes it easier. I felt the same way at first, but once I started connecting with classmates, it made things feel way less overwhelming.
In school, I was going to a dance course.
For the first time, It was a little awkward with other members of the group.
Later, before the competition, I began to feel comfortable, as a part of the team.
I was one of the best dance members and after the victory, I got more opportunities in this area
At Citytech I feel myself as a part of the group.
It is not necessary to do something. I just think about myself, what is my goal, and why I come here and do it.
I had a similar experience the first time I joined a dance team and I love how it led you to more opportunities.
Similar experience, Was nervous at first to join a team, but later as time went on felt part of the team and starting having a blast
I joined CPC when I was in high school. At first, I only participated in some organized games. Later, I attended a workshop and felt that it could help me. I often attended workshops that I was interested in. In addition, I often volunteered. I think it helped me understand where to get some resources. And I chose City Tech as my university because I visited it when I was still in CPC. I thought this university was good, so I applied for it when I applied for college later.
In high school i joined the dance group, I felt a mix of excitement and nervousness. I had always loved dancing, but being around others who seemed more experienced and confident made me a bit anxious. I was unsure if I would be able to keep up or fit in. There was a time we were rehearsing for a competition and I nailed a tricky move that I had been struggling with. The whole group cheered for me, and our instructor gave me a high-five. That moment made me feel like I was truly part of the team, and from then on, I felt more confident and connected with everyone.
Its so nice that your group and your instructor cheered you on. Making new members feel comfortable and welcome is super important for building bonds with teammates.
In my junior year of high school, I joined the Lacrosse team. I felt nervous to join because I had transferred schools that year and I didn’t know anyone else on the team. I felt confident in my skills because I had years of experience in the sport, but I was nervous to be by myself. I remember feeling like I was part of the group on scrimmage day when my entire team went out for food after playing for hours. I benefit from talking to new people, meeting new friends in different grades, and through this, discovering new lacrosse opportunities across the city. I can feel like part of a group at CT by being myself and being open-minded. If I feel more comfortable and open to speaking with others, they might feel more comfortable coming up to me as well.
I understand you completely because I was in a sort of situation when I joined soccer in highs school.
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When I joined catholic school, it changed me completely as a person and my morals. When I joined I felt annoyed because I wasn’t a big God believer. However, as time went on I realized the God is great because I realized he will always protect my family and I and grew a massive respect and love for God. He does things for a reason and I learned to accept those decisions. I will help myself by being more confident and engaging with other if I ever want to join a group in city tech.
I joined my high-school’s volleyball team, at first i felt nervous but then i was able to find some of my friends from classes and it felt a lot better, It’s a lot more fun to play sports with people you know/ ur friends. I used to be nervous about how I am playing/ and nervous if I am doing good or not, but slowly after we were building sets and that nervousness went awayThe only things I mainly recall is just winning the the PSAL championships, we were having parties and all with the group and going around in places together, so we all had a blast
Yeah joining with my friend made a bit more easier to be on the team till I got friendly with my other teammates
Congratsss, it’s always that nervous feeling from the overthinking but I’m glad that you where able to experience it and accomplish a lot
in High school I joined the wrestling team, I felt awkward at first cause I had to wrestle people I didn’t know and I didn’t want to give a wrong impression. I first felt apart of the group when I won a practice match and some of the vets of the team said I had some good judgement for my first time. From being in that group, it has made me more open to talk to people and not being awkward in conversations. What I can do to be part of a group, is force myself to be in places where I will be forced to socialize.
I agree, especially with a team like wrestling, it is definitely something that requires more interaction with one another since you are all learning. Props to you for breaking out your shell!
I joined the latin student association back in high school, and it was actually very odd at first because of how big it was even for a small group. I usually don’t do big groups, but I had to step out of this shell in order to do that since it would open me up to new experiences. This allowed me to become more social and more aware of people and their emotions. I will try to keep helping my friends and to allow myself to be open to new things in life as a way of experience.
highschool Varsity Soccer
When I first joined the team after getting admitted from my tryouts, I felt really nervous to what the training was going to be and if I was gonna be able to get along with the team. A time where I felt like I was apart of the group was when the team chose me to lead them my junior year when the captain wasn’t present to train us before our game. I felt like they relied on me with a huge role that I wasn’t used to but I was willing to give it my all for the game. The benefits I got from the participation of the group was group leader skills, improvement on skills and communication. What I can do to help myself on to feel apart of city tech is joining clubs organisations that interest me and attend social events to meet new people.
I can definitely relate. There was a time on my baseball team when I had to undergo the tasks of captain even though I wasn’t and as a result, my teammates ended up seeing me as a leader.
A group that I have joined is the youth group at my church. I felt very excited when I first joined because I joined with some friends but I also knew the group would introduce me to new people that eventually became friends with. A moment I felt like I was apart of the group is when we had planned a trip to a museum and we all received group shirts with our names on them. Some benefits I got from participation in the group are having a stronger connection and understanding of my religion and an opportunity to meet new people. In order to feel like I am a part of a group at City Tech I can join and attend clubs that are of my interest.
In my sophomore year of high school, I joined my school’s baseball program as a member of the junior varsity team. When I first joined, I was extremely nervous and felt out of place because I was the only one on the team of my demographic. A moment where I felt like I was finally a part of the group was one day after practice when we all took the subway home together and we had a really fun conversation that included all of us. Participating in the team gave me team building and communication skills from interacting with my coaches and teammates. For me to feel like a part of a group at City Tech, I should join clubs and different organizations, as well as interact with my classmates to make friends and connections.