A time that changed me is when i had to do things by myself and accept that some people are just not meant to be. No matter how much it hurts or how bad you want that certain person if you are just hurting yourself or if that is stopping you from becoming the best person of yourself then you have no choice but to let go. I lost one of my good friends due to her moving out of state. And we used to do everything together and our bond was very close since we have known each other since elementary school. And when the news was broken i was also broken. Since i had no one else and i didnt need no one else because she related and i trusted her with my things and my thoughts and no one else had my trust compared to her. Afterwards i was feeling really down since i did had a lot of other friends but no one else compared to her. And in the end, i had to let go and realize thst me being sad and not caring about everyone or everything will just hurt me and my family in the end.