Gingerly

Gingerly – Adjective

Definition: very cautious or careful

Source: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/gingerly

Found in: Intimate Apparel by Lynn Nottage (Act 2, Scene 1)

Quote:  GEORGE Give yuh hand ‘ere. Esther gingerly passes her hand to George. He sits   next to her, kissing each of her fingers then places her hand on his crotch.

In this quote, when George asked Esther to give her hand to him, Esther carefully passed her hand to George. She might not have known what to expect so she was very cautious about it.  After all she was uncomfortable.

 

Esther’s Dream

The play “Intimate Apparel”, by Lynn Nottage takes us back to 1905, where  Esther, a 35 year old African American is a talented seamstress, whose clients range from pampered Fifth Avenue society wife Mrs. Van Buren, who hates her life, to a prostitute named Mayme who could have been a successful pianist but instead she sells herself.  All Esther wants is a good man to marry. She finds herself unattractive.  On one side there is man who she married meeting through letters and on the other side there is this charming, sensitive man but his religion and traditions turns Esther’s love into nothing but a dream.

Through this play script Lynn Nottage touches on issues of race, women’s sense of worth, and the struggle against compromising one’s dreams.  Plays explore life through storytelling and acting. It becomes entertaining when performing and visual act comes together. Reading a play script is different than reading a narrated story. A play script consists almost entirely of dialogue. This helped me to engage and to be alert by going into a certain character’s world. I found myself become a part of the whole experience like watching a movie.

Also, through this play Lynn Nottage helped me explore questions like How do we love? How do we find happiness by also looking at themes like religion and traditions.  Each character is boxed into certain excepted norm of what their role is in the society and their struggle to be heard.  For example Mr. Marks who owns the store where Ester buys fabrics. He is an observant Jew who respects old world traditions, but his affection for his favorite customer is obvious.  “It isn’t often that something so fine and delicate enters the store,” he says, referring to a particular fabric but perhaps meaning Esther herself. Their love, obviously, can never be.

I felt like Lynn Nottage uncovered and interpreted her past and present through characters by this play. It helped us to enter the world of the play writer. Although set in 1905, Esther and her world speak to our everyday struggles like traditions, religion, race, self worth and one’s dreams.

Manifesto – Tackling Domestic Violence

In “Feminist Manifesto”, Loy is encouraging women to take charge of their life by taking control and having their own identities that are different from men.  This show us even back then in 1900’s women were fighting for their rights and individuality to have their own identity in society.  When Loy said “The desire for comfortable protection instead of and intelligent curiosity and courage in meeting…”  Loy tells women that they should strive for something other than comfortable protection by men. They should strive for intelligent curiosity and courage.

If I were to write a manifesto about women in our society, the issues I might write about would be the violence against women. By having an understanding of violence in relationships, families and communities is a root cause for violence in our society. We need to change how this problem manifests and magnifies itself in society at large to address the problem at its core.  By changing an individual point of view towards domestic violence, we may achieve a transformation of society overtime.

I am not sure what you mean by writing this issue in a bold way, but since this manifesto will be about my view, motives and intentions I would try to write it in a way that promotes my idea for carrying out changes about domestic violence.

 

Hitherto

HithertoAdverb

Definition: Until now, before this time.

Source: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/hitherto

Found in: “Professions For Women” by Virginia Woolf

Quote: “You have won rooms of your own in the house hitherto exclusively owned by men”.

Considering winning rooms being used as a metaphor of accomplishing something as a woman where until that point the entire house belonged completely to men, which seemed like a metaphor for male dominant society.

Ms. Furr and Ms. Skeene – Gay or Just Happy?

Gertrude Stein’s “Miss Furr and Miss Skeene.”

The first two paragraphs on page numbered 499.

“Georgine Skeene and Helen Furr were living where they were both cultivating their voices and they were gay there. They visited where Helen Furr had come from and then they went to where they were living where they were then regularly living.

There were some dark and heavy men there then. There were some who were not so heavy and some who were not so dark. Helen Furr and Georgine Skeene sat regularly with them. They sat regularly with the ones who were dark and heavy. They sat regularly with the ones who were not so dark. They sat regularly with the ones that were not so heavy. They sat with them regularly, sat with some of them. They went with them regularly went with them…”

When I first read the story, I noticed a lot of reputation of words, especially the word “gay”. Knowing that this was written in 1900’s, I automatically thought to replace the word “gay” with “happy”. Towards the end of the story, I realized there was more to the story besides them just being “happy”. The second time I read it I used the word gay as it is. I felt like it did have something to do with homosexuality and Getrude Stein purposely repeat the word to catch the reader’s attention and the meaning of the word “gay” really to strike out.

From my understanding, in the first paragraph George Skeene and Helen Furr moved to where Helen Furr was from. There, they were able to “cultivate their voices” might mean searching for their sexuality. In the second paragraph I felt like both women were having some kind of relationships with “dark and heavy” and “not so dark” men while they were exploring their sexuality with these men and with each other.

Narrator Reliability

Some of you have begun to consider the issue of narrator reliability. Compare narrator reliability in “The Cottagette” and “The Yellow Wall-Paper,” or compare one of these with the reliability of the narrator in “The Story of an Hour.” Include examples by quoting from the text to show what informs your sense of reliability.

In “The Story of an Hour”, according to the narrator, Mrs. Mallard did not know how to deal with her husband’s death at first. She seems confused. First she starts crying hysterically then when she is in her room alone, she starts thinking about beautiful the spring was which clearly indicated that she knew that was a new beginning for her. She was also thinking about how she would have her freedom now that her husband is gone. The narrator wrote “And yet she had loved him-sometimes-often she had not”. This also shows confusion for the reader. I asked myself two questions; Did Mrs. Mallard really love her husband? Why is that she was not clear as to how much of Mrs. Mallard loved her husband? Also in the story Mrs. Mallard often talk to herself. She lacks emotional skills to deal with her situation and this makes the reader question her reliability, just as in the short story “The Yellow Wallpaper” where the narrator seemed confused about her emotions and often talked to herself.

Querulous

Querulous – Adjective

Definition: complaining in a petulant or whining manner  (http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/us/definition/american_english/querulous)

From “The Yellow Wallpaper” by Charlotte Perkins Gilman

Page 5 – 9th paragraph – “I don’t feel as if it was worthwhile to turn my hand over for anything, and I’m getting dreadfully fretful and querulous.”

In this sentence, querulous indicates that, the person is getting extremely distressed, becoming more like a complainer and grouchy.

The Yellow Wallpaper vs. The Cottagette

An unreliable narrator is a narrator whose credibility has been seriously compromised. She/he typically displays characteristics or tendencies that indicate a lack of credibility or understanding of the story.  I believe the narrator in “The Yellow Wallpaper” is not a reliable source for information. Following are some quotes that support her unreliability.

  1.  “But these nervous troubles are dreadfully depressing.”   I don’t think the narrator is not a reliable source of information because she is not mentally stable and this can be the most significant reason for her unreliability. The narrator knows that she is unwell and this makes the readers question her reliability.
  2. “I get unreasonably angry with John sometimes”.  This indicates that even though she doesn’t have a reason to be angry with John, she cannot control her emotions sometimes. This also makes her an unreliable person.
  3. “Dear John! He loves me dearly and hates to have me sick.” “He asked me all sorts of questions, too, and pretended to be very loving and kind. As if I couldn’t see through him!”    At the beginning of the story, she sees John as this person who is trying to take care of her and her well being is in the best of his interest.  However, later on in the story, the narrator seems to despise her husband, John. This sudden change in opinion makes the reader question how reliable she is. The narrator can’t seem to make up her mind about how she feels about her husband.

 Following are three quotations from “The Yellow Wall-Paper” that present the married couple’s relationship.

  1. “I’ve got out at last, in spite of you and Jane! And I’ve pulled off most of the paper, so you can’t put me back!”   In the end, when the narrator pulls off most of the wallpaper we can see the explosion of her emotions. When she said “you can’t put me back”, this showed how trapped she felt by both her husband and her surroundings.
  2. “He hates to have me write a word.”  She reveals that despite her love for writing, her husband hates her to write. Here, the narrator is clearly feeling trapped in a marriage that does not allow her freedom. This inability to express herself in a meaningful way eventually leads her to associate herself with the woman in the wallpaper, who is trapped just like her.
  3. “What is it little girl?” he said.  John assumes a fatherly role over his wife like many men of his time. He consistently patronizes her. He ignores her emotions and calls her names, such as “blessed little goose” and “little girl.” This shows me that John treats his wife like a child.  It may be that the narrator’s continued unhappiness seems to be linked to the fact that she is being treated like a child and is not allowed to leave her room.

 In “The Cottagette”, Malda can be seen as a reliable narrative. Some quotes that support this theory is.

  1. “But there’s a condition!” said he all at once, sitting up straight and looking very fierce. “You mustn’t cook!”  By Ford asking Malda to marry him only if she gives up cooking and continue to do what she loves to do which is her art and that he would take on the role of cooking shows true love and equality in a marriage.
  2. “It is not true, always, my dear,” “that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.”  Even though the narrator touches bases on the stereotypical concept that the role of women in marriage is to be a homemaker. She reveals that is not the only thing women are capable of but women also has intelligences. This quote shows that all guys don’t want to marry someone who is only skilled in domestic things but someone with smarts, and other skills.

Utopia is ideally perfect state, especially in its social and moral aspects.  Dystopia is an imaginary society in which social trends have culminated in a greatly diminished quality of life or degradation of values.

I would describe “The Cottagette” as the utopia and “The Yellow Wallpaper” as the dystopia. In the” Yellow Wallpaper” the protagonist often feels trapped and is struggling to escape. Her state of mind as well as the way she describes the room and her marriage, she helps readers recognize the negative aspects of the dystopian world through her perspective.

In the Cottagette I noticed a Utopian like community. The area of the cottage is called High Court where Malda describes eating with highly thoughtful musicians and high musical thinkers in the boarding house near the cottage.  They had moved there to join the community in which everyone that moves there is seeking the same type of community where people are able to grow in their interest.

Stereotypical fairy tale gone wrong!

The short story “There was Once” by Margaret Atwood is humorous.  It attempts to change the stereotypical fairy tale stories that the young girls are so used to hearing.  In today’s society most women recognize being beautiful as being good and reversely being unattractive is being bad.  It also attempts to show what the perfect image for girls to have while they are growing up through fairy tale stories such as Cinderella. The message that is being emphasized on this short story is that of the importance of physical appearance within children stories where the main character is always beautiful and good. The characters in the story seem to be a middle aged man and a critical woman that constantly questions the narrative of the story.

The story starts  with the first speaker telling the story of Cinderella. “There was once a poor girl, as beautiful as she was good, who lived with her wicked stepmother in a house in the forest.”. Another character in the story criticizes every possible solution proposed by the narrator.  It is important for readers to question a writing to get more depth inside the story.

I really enjoyed reading this short story because it made me smile and think about all those stereotypes that exist in our society today.

Tumultuously

Tumultuously– Adverb

Definition:  loud, excited, emotional, involving a lot of violence, confusion or disorder (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/tumultuous)

The Story of an Hour by Kate Chopin

At the beginning of tenth paragraph –   “Now her bosom rose and fell tumultuously”.

As used in this context, tumultuous would be best defined as a violent agitation up of mind or feelings or a violent outburst.

In this sentence tumultuously seems to indicate that Mrs. Mallard’s heart is pounding so hard that her chest is visibly beating.