Paternalistic

– Noun

– The attitude or actions of a person that protects people and gives them what they need but does not give them any responsibility or freedom.

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/paternalistic

– “Then you can scratch the condenscending paternalistic terminology. It’s a woman, pal. Woman.”

– The second speaker is refering to women when he makes that comment.

Forestall

– Verb

– To stop something from happening or to cause something to happen at a later time.

–  http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/forestall

– ” He had only taken the time to assure himself of its truth by a second telegram, and had hastened to forestall any less careful, less tender friend in bearing the sad message.”

–  In “The Story of an Hour” by Kate Chopin, the use of “forestall” is relevent becasue of the heart attack at the end could of been avoided.

Jostling

jostling-  verb

https://www.google.com/#q=jostling

push, elbow, or bump against (someone) roughly, typically in a crowd
Recitatif

“Roberta didn’t acknowledge my presence in any way and I got to thinking maybe she didn’t know I was there. I began to pace myself in the line, jostling people one minute and lagging behind the next, so Roberta and I could reach the end of our respective lines at the same time and there would be a moment in our tum when we would face each other”.

twyla was bumping people while going through the line.