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Wikipedia

According to “Wikipedia”, research is the creative and systematic work undertaken to increase the wealth of knowledge”. Also It involves the collection, organization, and analysis of information to increase understanding of a topic or issue.What I  have learned from Wikipedia is that Research may be done in different forms. There are some forms of research: Original, Scientific,Research in the Humanities,Artistic, Historical Research and Documentary Research. Moreover, I have learned that there are some methods of conducting research. The first is Exploratory Research, which helps to identify and define a problem or question.Second is Constructive research it tests theories and proposes solutions to a problem or question. The last method is Empirical research which tests the feasibility of a solution using empirical evidence. 

The Traditional Research

Alexandra Locket is an assistant professor of English at Spelman College. Her areas of applied skills include technical and professional writing, teaching with technology, and writing program administration. According to the article of  Alexandra Lockett “ THE TRADITIONAL RESEARCH PAPER IS BEST”, the Internet makes the process of research and of writing research much more complicated.In 21st-century politics of research is defined by the problem of scope. As there is simply too much information. For instance, if we Research “the research paper” via Google, Google News, and Google Scholar retrieves almost 19,000,000 results. Also, a lot of students make “plagiarism” and they use sources such as Google and Wikipedia and they think that these sources are reliable for “researching”. However, Wikipedia is strictly forbidden to use in a academic writing

Coffeehouse #5

Time management

Time management is one of the most valuable skills that you can have if you are an online student.Due to Pandemic, when everything became online time management is very important for students. Especially if a student is adjusting to a full-time online program and balancing school and work, it is important to be able to manage time effectively. The better student manages his time, the easier it is to achieve his goals. Moreover, successful time management not only helps with your learning but can also make you more productive at work and in your personal life. There are some tips for online students who want to make effective time management.

1)         Plan ahead your future schedule

2)         Student should avoid multitasking, which can lead to decrease of productivity

3)         Set up your virtual office (right lighting, speed of Internet and comfortable space)

4)         Block out distraction (such as social networks)

5)         Reward yourself when you accomplish your task

6)         Create balance between work and school 

I think that time management is the most important skill that person should have. By controlling his time and work and getting it done by time, a person can accomplish plans.

In my opinion, my time management skill is very poor. I have to learn how to fix my time management. In order to accomplish my classes, I have to find balance between my study and family. Most of the time I do my home assignments very late at night, that is not suitable for me and does not work. So, I want to fix my time management and learn to do my assignments on time. After reading this helpful article I will improve my time management and hopefully, I will be more successful in my study.

Ubaiduloeva Zarrina

Reflection about City Tech Literary Arts Festival

Today I attended City Tech Literary Arts Festival. My favorite part of the event was the introduction and how City Tech students were telling their own stories of life. Especially, I remembered the story of the student whose name is Damitreze Poe. He said that many black people feel racism and forced to live with it. Also, he added that when you live in America you feel there are two different worlds, world of black people and white.  When he was nine years old, he felt injustice from the NYPD side. The police officer was murdered, and people thought that he did. When he graduates from City Tech college, he is planning to help innocent black people who faces with racism. I like this story the most, because when a student was telling about his childhood and the story of his life, I felt sincerity and he was telling from the bottom of his heart. Other students also were interesting to listen, but less than Damitrese. Some of them were just reading and that time I felt very boring. In fact, I like when person is sincere with the audience, in that case people will understand him and listen carefully. Also, I noticed how professors and other students were supporting the hosts(students) in chat, and I was surprised how everyone is friendly with each other. I am happy that I attended this festival because I gain a lot of new knowledge about the college itself and its students.

Conclusion

 In conclusion, I did a research about divorce in different cultures in three different genres and find out a lot of new and meaningful information for myself. In my first Annotation Bibliography, I read an article of clinical psychologist and want to point out findings about divorce in Asia countries. For example, thirty years ago divorce was very rare in most Asia countries. However, in recent years, the pattern of marriage and divorce has changed dramatically. Also, I have known five key influences which effects on divorce. In my second Annotation Bibliography, I conducted interview from my husband to know how he feels about divorce in Tajik culture and what he thinks. This interview was very important for me because I gained a lot of knowledge regarding divorce. There are some key findings what I discovered. In the last ten years divorce cases have been dramatically increased in Tajikistan. Moreover, during the interview I figured out three main reasons of divorce between two young people. The first reason is when husband’s relatives are intruding to a married couple. The second reason is arranged marriages and the third reason is when you marry to one of your relative. Actually, I did not know such subtleties about my own culture.  In my third Annotated Bibliography, I watched a YouTube video about divorce in Islam Religion. The main points I want to mention is that Islam Religion permits divorce, and it is very important for Muslim person to divorce in Islamic way.  Furthermore, I learned that woman has rights to divorce from her husband if she wishes to and there are four types of divorce. Surprisingly, I did not know a lot about divorce in Islam. All the information is taken from the credible source and the source is Holy Islam Book “Quran”. The video I watched at YouTube channel gave me a basic and very helpful information about divorce in my Religion itself. I think that this information I need to know in order to protect my right according to my Religion.

The information which I have gained during the research of Annotated Bibliography essay is very valuable for me, because I learned a lot of knew information about different cultures and religion. Also, I think that this research changed my thinking and opinion regarding divorce at all. Lastly, I have learned and discovered a lot of meaningful information which I think will help me in future. This research essay is very significant for me, it helped me to answer my question and deepen into the topic which I chose.

Annotation#1

1.Huang, Wei‐Jen. “An Asian Perspective on Relationship and Marriage Education.” Family Process” vol. 44, no. 2, Blackwell Publishing, 2005, pp. 161–73, doi:10.1111/j.1545-5300.2005.00051.x.

2.The author of the article “An Asian Perspective on Relationship and Marriage Education” Wei-Jen Huang is the Chinese clinical psychologist who was born and raised in Taiwan, and later trained and based in United States. According to the article “An Asian Perspective on Relationship and Marriage Education” which was written by Wei-Jen Huang (2005), author wants to point out the general trends in the institution of marriage, divorce rate and couple relationship education among Asians in China, Taiwan, Japan, Singapore, Malaysia and India.

The author asserts that, “Thirty years ago divorce was very rare in most Asian countries. However, in recent years, the pattern of marriage and divorce has changed dramatically in many parts of Asia.” Moreover, Wei-Jen Huang reports that, the divorce rate in some Asia countries, has increased quite dramatically (for example: Korea, Japan, and Taiwan), while in others, divorce rates have increased more gradually (for example: India). On the other hand, in Malaysia, the Muslim divorce rate has actually decreased in the last 2 years. Also, this article implies some key influences on divorce across Asian countries.

The first influence is “Rapid economic growth, urbanization, and the changing cultural norms in Asian societies.”  Nowadays, the modern society is more focused on a carrier advancement and wealth, which leads to negative impact on both quality and stability of marital relationship. priority. The second influence is “Enhanced choice through educational/employment opportunities for Asian women.” In modern society, women in Asia have become more educated and economically independent, they have more choice to divorce with the partner who abuse them and make relationship in an unacceptable way. Third, “The loosening of social control over marriage. Fourth, The divorce laws in most Asian countries have become more lenient” Fifth, “The growing individualism”. The last of is “The rise of ‘‘romantic love’’ and the gradual decline of arranged marriages.” The first contribution is to stop the arranged marriages. The second is to rise the education level which leads to decrease of divorce level.

In conclusion, author Wei-Jen Huang strongly believes that high-quality marital education, therapy, and supervision are needed in all Asian nations in order to prevent divorces. In addition, author asserts, in order to build healthy marriage, people must address values and concepts such as commitment, forgiveness, responsibility, self-reflection and sacrifices.

3. In my opinion, Wei-Jen Huang’s article is a good beginning point for preventing divorces in Asia countries, because it has good research which is based on his own experience of conducting information, statistics and reliable sources.

4.Derived on Wei-Jen Huang’s experience, who was studied in the United States and working as a clinical psychologist, he is highly credible. Huang’s style of writing is academic and his purpose to inform reader about trends of marriage and rising of divorces in Asia countries.

5. Moreover, the genre of the article is a peer reviewed journal. I believe that author chose that genre because he is working as a psychologist and he conducted a lot of research while he was working with patients. I think that, Huang’s article is a good for the intended audience who is interested in marriage education and divorce rate in Asia culture.

6.“Given the data on the negative effects of marital conflict and divorce (Markman &Halford, 2005) and the increasing divorce rate in various parts of Asia, we can start to imagine the pain and distress experienced by Asian family members. As marital disruption continues to increase, more and more Asians will be motivated to seek help, both in terms of therapy and prevention.”

I think that, this quote is very helpful and informative because author tried to research a lot and show that divorce rate is increasing in Asia countries therefore, people should ask for help in terms of therapy and prevention.

Ubaiduloeva Zarrina

English 1101, Prof. Scanlan

Date:04/06/2021

Divorce in the different cultures.

Annotation #2

 1.Muminov, Odil. Personal interview. April 6, 2021.

2. I conducted an interview from my husband to get some knowledge about divorce in our country and conduct some information to write it in my research essay. I asked several questions, which were based on how man feel and thinks about divorce. Furthermore, it was very helpful for me to analyze and make research about divorce in different cultures and divorce in general.

           -Why do people divorce?

          – Each divorce has its own reasons. For example, a friend of mine Oscar divorce from his wife because he had game addiction. His wife tried her best to treat his addiction, but nothing helped. After trying to solve this issue for 5 years she gave up on the marriage.

         -Tell me about divorce in your country (Tajikistan). Why do people divorce there? What are the main reasons?

        – I assume, that the first and major reason of divorce in my country is the intruder of husband’s relatives in couple’s life and all the relatives are trying to point out what to do, how to behave and obey to all of them. In most situations, the main person who destroy the young family is the mother-in law. The second reason of divorce is arranged marriages. Parents decide instead of you who will be your partner in life and with whom you have to have relationship. The third reason is when you marry to your relative. It is normal in my culture to get marry to your cousin or niece. Moreover, my cousin is working at the City Clerk and told me that in the last 10 years divorce cases had been dramatically increased.

In conclusion, Odil Muminov thinks that couple which is married already or the person who is preparing to marry has to be ready for the difficulties during the marriage life, both of partners have to be more patient, forgivable and trust his partner in life, in order to prevent divorce. Divorce in always stressful for both partners.

3. I think that interview with Odil Muminov is a good beginning to conduct source about cultural differences in divorce and it was helpful to write a research essay. Also, he told me a good, important information about divorce in Tajik culture based on his friend’s and relative’s experiences.  

4.Based on Odil’s experience and knowledge while he was living in his hometown and the information, which he gave me is not very reliable but very meaningful and important. He told me his opinion and his friend’s experience, however, not everybody lives and has the same opinion as the interviewer. Everybody is different, but the majority of our culture behaves and thinks like my husband. I think that different culture has different attitude toward divorce.  

5. Odil’s short interview is good and useful for the audience who wants to know more about divorces in different cultures. This information is very interesting and knowledgeable for the intended group of people who research this issue and also for the general public.

6.“The rising cases of divorce in my country is the big threat for the institution of family.” This quote is very significant and meaningful because it reinforces the thesis of my research essay and figures the bad effect of divorce to family institution.

Ubaiduloeva Zarrina

English 1101, Prof. Scanlan

Date:04/08/2021

Divorce in the different cultures.

Annotation#3

1. “Divorce” YouTube. YouTube, 13 Aug ,2018. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zNPs1-ksVm8&list=TLPQMDkwNDIwMjEHoKXREjKcPQ&index=2

2. In this YouTube video, I watched and listened about Islamic Law of divorce. According to the video “Divorce”, Islam permits divorce, and it is very important for Muslim to divorce in Islamic way. I think that a man who was talking in this video is a reporter from “Islamic Guidance” channel and based on Islam law, woman can ask for divorce(khula).

There are four ways that a woman divorced in Islam. First, is when a divorce is issued by a man. Second, is a valid reason. It means that when a woman goes to the court, asks to divorce her. If a court cannot solve her problem regarding her marriage issue, the court is awarding a woman with divorce. Third, is when a woman has no reason, and she withdraws everything to her husband. Fourth, is if a person happens accuse his wife of adultery. Moreover, divorce “talaq” in Islam cannot be counted when man’s intellect has been closed. It means that when man is angry, and he said “talaq” to his wife divorce cannot be real. That is the way Islam reduce divorce rate.

3. I think that YouTube video “Divorce” has a good and reliable source of information. Especially, for the people who are researching and conducting trustworthy information about divorce in different religions, and for the people who are Muslim and want to divorce by Islamic rules.

4. In my opinion, this YouTube video is highly credible and reliable. Based on the information which were talked in the video are taken from Holy Islam Book “Quran”. I think that author’s video style is academic, and its purpose was to inform people to behave in Islamic way.

5. This video is the documentary film, and it contains about “Divorce” in Islam. Moreover, it is a good emplacement for the purposeful audience such as philosophers, professors, researchers and all other people who investigate different cultural divorces. In my opinion, this is the good choice to deliver information to the purposed audience, because it is short, clear and understandable.   

6 “Divorce is not an indication that is woman is bad or man is bad.” I like this quote and found it very helpful because it shows that divorce is not the end of the world. Also, the majority of people thinks that if person is divorced, she or he is bad and has a bad attitude on you. However, it is very wrong notion because it is not an indication of person’s personality.  

Ubaiduloeva Zarrina

English 1101, Prof. Scanlan

Date:04/06/2021

Divorce in the different cultures.

Annotation #2

Muminov, Odil. Personal interview. April 6, 2021.

I took an interview from my husband to get some knowledge about divorce in his country and conduct some information to write it in my research essay. I asked several questions, which were very helpful for me to analyze and make research about divorce in different cultures and divorce in general.

           -Why do people divorce?

          – Each divorce has its own reasons. For example, a friend of mine Oscar divorce from his wife because he had game addiction. His wife tried her best to treat his addiction, but nothing helped. After trying to solve this issue for 5 years she gave up on the marriage.

         -Tell me about divorce in your country (Tajikistan). Why do people divorce there? What are the main reasons?

        – I assume, that the first and major reason of divorce in my country is the intruder of husband’s relatives in couple’s life and all the relatives are trying to point out what to do, how to behave and obey to all of them. In most situations, the main person who destroy the young family is the mother-in law. The second reason of divorce is arranged marriages. Parents decide instead of you who will be your partner in life and with whom you have to have relationship. The third reason is when you marry to your relative. It is normal in my culture to get marry to your cousin or niece. Moreover, my cousin is working at the City Clerk and told me that in the last 10 years divorce cases had been dramatically increased.

In conclusion, Odil Muminov thinks that couple which is married already or the person who is preparing to marry has to be ready for the difficulties during the marriage life, both of partners have to be more patient, forgivable and trust his partner in life, in order to prevent divorce. Divorce in always stressful for both partners.

I think that interview with Odil Muminov is a good beginning to conduct source about cultural differences in divorce and it was helpful to write a research essay. Also, he told me a good, trustworthy information about divorce in Tajik culture based on his friend’s and relative’s experiences.  

Based on Odil’s experience and knowledge while he was living in his hometown and the information, what he gave me in an interview is very reliable and credible. Odil’s short interview is good and useful for the audience who wants to know more about divorces in different cultures.

“The rising cases of divorce in my country is the big threat for the institution of family.” This quote is very significant and useful because it reinforces the thesis of my research essay and figures the bad effect of divorce to family institution.

Ubaiduloeva Zarrina

English 1101, Prof. Scanlan

Date: 04/06/2021

Divorce in the different cultures.

1st Annotated Bibliography

Huang, Wei‐Jen. “An Asian Perspective on Relationship and Marriage Education.” Family Process” vol. 44, no. 2, Blackwell Publishing, 2005, pp. 161–73, doi:10.1111/j.1545-5300.2005.00051.x.

The author of the article “An Asian Perspective on Relationship and Marriage Education” Wei-Jen Huang is the Chinese clinical psychologist who was born and raised in Taiwan, and later trained and based in United States.

According to the article “An Asian Perspective on Relationship and Marriage Education” which was written by Wei-Jen Huang (2005), author wants to point out the general trends in the institution of marriage, divorce rate and couple relationship education among Asians in China, Taiwan, Japan, Singapore, Malaysia and India.The author asserts that, “Thirty years ago divorce was very rare in most Asian countries. However, in recent years, the pattern of marriage and divorce has changed dramatically in many parts of Asia.” Moreover, Wei-Jen Huang reports that, the divorce rate in some Asia countries, has increased quite dramatically (for example: Korea, Japan, and Taiwan), while in others, divorce rates have increased more gradually (for example: India). On the other hand, in Malaysia, the Muslim divorce rate has actually decreased in the last 2 years. Also, this article implies some key influences on divorce across Asian countries.

The first influence is “Rapid economic growth, urbanization, and the changing cultural norms in Asian societies.”  Nowadays, the modern society is more focused on a carrier advancement and wealth, which leads to negative impact on both quality and stability of marital relationship. priority. The second influence is “Enhanced choice through educational/employment opportunities for Asian women.” In modern society, women in Asia have become more educated and economically independent, they have more choice to divorce with the partner who abuse them and make relationship in an unacceptable way. Third, “The loosening of social control over marriage.” Fourth, “The divorce laws in most Asian countries have become more lenient” Fifth, “The growing individualism”. The last of is “The rise of ‘‘romantic love’’ and the gradual decline of arranged marriages.” The first contribution is to stop the arranged marriages. The second is to rise the education level which leads to decrease of divorce level.

In conclusion, author Wei-Jen Huang strongly believes that high-quality marital education, therapy, and supervision are needed in all Asian nations in order to prevent divorces. In addition, author asserts, in order to build healthy marriage, people must address values and concepts such as commitment, forgiveness, responsibility, self-reflection, sacrifices.

In my opinion, Wei-Jen Huang’s article is a good beginning point for preventing divorces in Asia countries, because it has good research which is based on his own experience of conducting information, statistics and reliable sources.

Derived on Wei-Jen Huang’s experience, who was studied in the United States and working as a clinical psychologist, he is highly credible. Huang’s style of writing is academic and his purpose to inform reader about trends of marriage and rising of divorces in Asia countries. Moreover, the genre of the article is a peer reviewed journal. I believe that author chose that genre because he is working as a psychologist and he conducted a lot of research while he was working with patients. I think that, Huang’s article is a good for the intended audience who is interested in marriage education and divorce rate in Asia culture.

“Given the data on the negative effects of marital conflict and divorce (Markman &Halford, 2005) and the increasing divorce rate in various parts of Asia, we can start to imagine the pain and distress experienced by Asian family members. As marital disruption continues to increase, more and more Asians will be motivated to seek help, both in terms of therapy and prevention.” I think that, this quote is very helpful and informative because author tried to research a lot and show that divorce rate is increasing in Asia countries therefore, people should ask for help in terms of therapy and prevention.

Ubaiduloeva Zarrina

English 1101, Prof. Scanlan

Date: 03/26/2021

Divorce in the different cultures.

Introduction:

Why do people divorce? What are the main reasons that lead to divorce? What kind of challenges they are facing during the marriage life? What year of marriage is divorce most common? Does culture affect divorce? What is the highest and lowest divorce rate? Nowadays, divorce, which has been very common in today’s societies, is the major cause that leads to family breakdown. However, in some cases, divorce is the only solution for a family to live in peace and live their life happy. When marriage life of a couple become intolerable, the woman and man may think, that divorce is the only fair solution for both of them to live their life happily and the way they wanted. Each society has different culture of divorcement. Commonly, divorce is universally seen as something negative across many cultures. For instance, cultures that focus on collective identity tend to perceive divorce as a failure of societal duties that results from a personal weakness and flaw. The family and community especially, Middle East of Asia, looks down on and sometimes blames the couple for not trying hard enough.  According to the article “India has the lowest divorce rate in the world: Countries with lowest and highest divorce rates” published inIndia Today, November 20, 2018, describes that India has the lowest divorce rate. India has less than 1 percent divorce rate. Moreover, the article of India Today states, that the Global divorce rate increased up to 251,8% since 1960. Every year, world organizations such as UN record Global divorce rates. On the other hand, according to the UN, the country with the highest divorce rate is Maldives.

            In this research essay of Annotated Bibliography, I am expected to find more information about divorce in different cultures and how the culture affect divorce. I will try to find out the reasons of divorce and the difficulties which couple is facing during the marriage. Moreover, I am expected to give new statistics about divorce rate (the highest and lowest rate) and divorce notion/concept in each culture. Lastly, I will get personal interview by phone with my mother to ask her opinion about divorce.

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