I don’t think I have ever felt so scared yet also so alone in my life. However it all stared Last summer during August I used to work in a well known restaurant, during that time I was a bar-back and soon got promoted as a bartender. I have been working with them almost a year.
However everything change on a Friday night. It was one of the busies night we have ever have I was busy with my customers around the bar. when I had the chance to get a break the bouncer approach me and he stared to talk to me. As we were talking he would get closer to me and place his hands on my shoulder creating me to feel uncomfortable. It came to the point that I told him it wasn’t right he got anger and told me he has done it with many of the girls from the restaurant. A few days pass and on a Friday Night, he approach me once more and became more aggressive towards me, and he cross line when he try to touch me inappropriate as well force to kiss me. After that night it was the first time I had to report anonymous. I was so scared and worried that he would do something to me or my partner. At the end my bosses didn’t believe the statement that it was made and it created me to come forward and admit that I made the statement. When I came out I felt so exposed so scared. I felt for a Moment that people will criticizes me. I was forced to quit while he stay and keep working there.
At some point I felt that people will say that I was looking for it, or that I stared it. At the end I was forced to leave and he stayed and on till this day he still works there.
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