Life After Undergrad: Finding my new groove

Hey everyone, if youā€™re just catching up Iā€™ve changed my blog from ā€œVirtues from Motherhoodā€ to ā€œLife After Undergradā€ as I chronicle my transition from college student to full-time working adult. First let me say that I am considering grad school and getting my Masters Degree but Iā€™m still on the fence. Transitioning from a college student routine into one without any school is surprisingly challenging. I thought that Iā€™d be relieved and carefree now that I didnā€™t have to worry about papers, midterms and passing grades, but truth be told I feel a little lost without it. I got so used to planning my day out and rushing off to class after work while making sure that everything was done and organized.

Now, I wake up and get ready for work but I feel light, there is no bag full of books and notes, there is no folder filled with a syllabus and assignments. Itā€™s just me and my now downsized bag headed off for a brisk 9-5 shift. Last week the spring semester began and I felt a little sad, some of my friends are still there and my siblings are back in class, and then there’s me, headed home at 530. Itā€™s not all bad though, I’ve started meal prepping and trying not to eat out. I also started going back to the gym and trying to take better care of myself. While I was in school IĀ was on the go for 15 hours a day so eating right and exercising took a back seat.

Now as I try to get into the groove of things I try to keep a positive mindset. Iā€™ve made a habit of pointing out the positives to myself and dealing with and discarding the negative. Iā€™ve learned throughout my college career that attitude is everything and will affect anything you do. Iā€™m not sure what the future holds for me right now but I am excited to find out. Now that Iā€™ve achieved what I thought was impossible IĀ am more confident than ever; IĀ believe in who IĀ am and what IĀ can do. That ability is invaluable, you need to value everything about yourself, no matter where you are.

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