Jarred (verb) – Ā to have a harshly unpleasant or perturbing effect on oneās nerves,feelings, thoughts, etc.
This was written in āThe Cottagetteā towards the end of the story. P.50
āWhen you took to cooking it jarred me. I have been a cook, I tell you, and I know what it is. I hated it–to see my wood-flower in a kitchen.”
In this statement, Ford Mathews means that he did not like see his soon to be fiancƩe working in the kitchen. He knew how it feel to work in the kitchen so hurts to put Malda through that predicament.
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